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Cures today. Not someday.

May 16, 2014

 

Most stories have only one beginning; I, however, am blessed to have many.  

 

May 15, 2009 – Instead of walking with my graduating class at Yankee stadium, I was 3,000 miles to the west and receiving my first dose of chemotherapy. 

I talked to my college swim coach, Lauren, that morning.  She had been diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer the month before.  Nuggets of wisdom I have since dubbed Laurenisms, she said, “Don’t hang onto what the doctors tell you,” and secondly, “Whatever you do, stay positive.”

 

 

September 10, 2009 – Merely four months later that first little Laurenism blossomed.  I had completed 6 cycles of ABVD chemotherapy and was ready to get back to “normal,” when I was told that not only did the chemo prove ineffective against my cancer, but my scans had been significantly misread.  Due to the location and size of the mass covering my right lung, the doctors at Scripps in San Diego recommended a treatment program that would have the effect of, “…if you used to run a few miles, you might only be able to make it around the block.”

“I cannot make any decisions today,” I told the doctor and walked out in pursuit of a second opinion.  My plans to take the LSAT would have to take a backseat; the battle for my life had just begun.

 

February 18, 2010 – Nurses came into my room on the “protective isolation” floor at UCLA Ronald Reagan around 7am, two little infusion bags containing stem cells in hand and singing “Happy Birthday.”  The stem cells looked like frozen tomato bisque and were absorbed into my system much faster than the other crap, but I knew the most trying weeks still lay ahead.  I had just completed high-dose chemo, the effects of which my body would endure over the next unknown number of days until the stem cells took root in my bone marrow, regenerating a new-and-improved immune system.

In reference to my blood type, one of the nurses remarked, “B positive, be positive!”

All I could think about was what Lauren had told me months before: Laurenism #2.  Hold onto myself, Alli D, and stay positive.  And what other choice did I have?  It was in blood, literally.

 

September 19, 2011 – It had been a year since I finished radiation therapy at UCSD Moore’s Cancer Center.  I was on the plane, flying back to San Diego after attending Lauren’s memorial service in New York.  Emotions high since I landed in New York 36 hours prior and let the reality settle, I had wanted to say “thank you” to her family, but I couldn’t find the nerve to lift my eyes to theirs.  The memory of standing in her office back in 2008, together brainstorming what might be causing our shared shoulder pain was all too vivid and the “what ifs” naturally fleeted across my mind.  

But it was during that 6-hour flight that I opened my laptop and began drafting an email to my club coach, Joe.  In light of an awfully negative series of events, I felt the urge to do something momentously positive – not only for myself, but to inspire others with their own challenges, none too small, to see that life really is beautiful.

What I proposed was to do something universally understood as challenging, some even call it impossible: to swim the English Channel.  Incredibly fortunate to have a second chance at life, it was understood that I had also just gained the motivation to attempt such a feat.  Joe was on board without hesitation and the training began, Lauren’s voice waking me up before dawn every morning.  ”Cut the crap,” she says, smile on her face, of course.

 

August 28, 2013 - At approximately 2:15pm, I made it to the French shore, having covered nearly 28 miles since leaving Dover, England, in 11 hours and 14 minutes. It was the culmination of many things, including my battle with cancer and two years of training for the Channel, and simultaneously the start of something incredible.

 

 

Fast forward to today and I ask that you join me in supporting The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) by making a donation to my fundraising campaign for Woman of the Year. Each dollar raised counts as one vote and the candidate who raises the most money “wins.” It is really going to take the global community to cure blood cancer. I think we can. 

Let’s make someday, today.

 

Thank you from the bottom of my heart,

Alli

 

All donations are greatly appreciated and are tax deductible. They'll not only support LLS research but patient services, advocacy, public and professional education, and community services as well.

 

For more information please visit www.lls.org and channeledin.com.

 

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Important Note: Donations made after 5/17/14 at 12:00pm PST will not be applied in announcing the local Man and Woman of the Year, however all donations are appreciated and will still make a huge impact on LLS's mission.

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